On Contracts

For me the most important thing in our relationship is to have a good detailed contract. This is something we have been working on for a long time - and I think it will always be a work in progress because as we discover more about each other there will be things that we want to add or change. This is something for both of us to work on as my dear submissive is allowed free will in some things and there is also my duty as her Master to protect her from emotional, physical or spiritual harm and to set fair limits for both of us. to give an example we have safe words to make sure that we do not go beyond the agreed limits in everyday things but we have also agreed that there are no safe words to be used when she is being disciplined - but to protect her well-being there is a stop word to be used if she needs a break to protect her health - and of course there is also the trust between us that I will do her no harm.
There is also something else about our contract - it is very detailed in what my lovely submissive will do to serve her Master - and because of that it is something that is very arousing to read - think I'll have to stay at my desk for a while now :-)